How can I tell if a water spot is a mineral deposit or clear-coat etching?

A mineral deposit sits on top of the surface and often feels slightly raised or rough, and it usually responds to acidic cleaning or a water-spot remover. Etching is a physical or chemical depression in the coating or clear coat and remains visible as a ring or crater after the mineral residue has been removed. Clean the area chemically first, then inspect under strong, angled lighting: whatever is still visible is likely etching.

References
  1. Hardness of Water, U.S. Geological Survey
  2. The Physical and Chemical Properties of Water, Drinking Water Inspectorate (UK)
  3. Hard water, Wikipedia
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